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I am furious

EDIT – bubhub has removed the question and the answer from their website.  Very good news.

I am fuming.

This advice was given this morning on a well known Australian parenting forum.  By an expert.

The expert recommends restricting feeds, introducing more water and night weaning.

Well this is pretty straight forward but here goes.

Regarding the water, Dr Sears confirms that breastfed babies don’t require extra water.

Here is information supporting cue feeding.

Some stand out points -

- Baby-led breastfeeding is recommended by the WHO (world health org.) and LLL (la leche league)

- Demand feeding also promotes further bonding between mom and baby.

- Breastfeeding has been found to decrease stress in mom and baby, so the more you breastfeed the less stressful you will both be.

Everything I’ve ever been told by lactation consultants outside of NICU says cue feed, not schedule.

We’re heading into summer, these babies need fluids day and night, feed them.  Frequent nursing is so normal, feeding in a sling makes it easy.

And bubhub, I’m disappointed.  Your expert has given false information and it would seem you’ve got her  back.

For info on baby led weaning got to www.babyledweaning.com

Why we love baby led weaning

Nature has done a pretty great job of making nutritionally complete food for babies first year. Breastmilk. It contains everything baby needs with all nutrients being bio-available and easily digest-able that food need only be for fun and experimentation before 12 months.

Nature has also done a pretty good job of creating foods suitable for babies firsts. Think about how soft and squishy a banana is, for example, it breaks easily in a little ones hands, it’s chewable without teeth, and the skin makes it perfectly portable! Avocado need only be peeled and sliced. Here in the north we have the chocolate pudding fruit which is great for little ones. Broccoli and cauliflower have little handles, baby sweet corn and the perfect size and shape for little hands.

So short of an emergency, why jar food?

Compared to homemade food, jar food is like MacDonald’s for prewalkers. It’s full of additives, is often very sweet and is often recalled for safety reasons.

Just read about this baby food recalled because it contained lead.

Spooning food into a babies mouth may seem like the best way to start solids, but truth is by the time they are ready for solids they should be able to do it themselves. Let me explain.

Babies should start solids when they show the physical signs that they are ready, and the biggest sign is when they start taking food off a parent (or a parents plate) and put it to their mouths. Changes in sleeping patterns is not a sign to start solids, nor is frequent nursing or simply being a heavy baby.

Spoon feeding is a hangover from the era when babies were routinely fed solids at around 2 months. Mothers were feeding their babies on schedule instead of on demand, then when their baby seemed unsettled they assumed he wasn’t getting enough and introduced solids. Because at 2 months a baby can’t coordinate their own limbs, a spoon was introduced. Spoon feeding is backed by no scientific evidence to support it.

Spoon feeding can cause a baby to eat more then he normally would, baby led weaning allows a baby to control his intake and therefore regulate his own appetite.

Spoon feeding can fill a baby up to the point where he no longer nurses as frequently, therefore he isn’t getting the nutrients from breastmilk which are bio-available and instead he is relying on getting them from baby food which aren’t bio-available and could therefore cause poor nutrition.

Baby led weaning teaches independence. Baby led weaning is a more relaxed approach for both baby and parents, making meal time less stressful and setting up health eating habits for years to come.

Baby led weaning is fun for baby, and makes food enjoyable. Baby led weaning means cooking one meal for the family, and less work for the meal maker. It means you can order off the menu at a restaurant and let baby pick off your plate instead of bringing a whole bag of stuff with you for babies lunch.

Baby led weaning gets baby involved in meal times, they eat what you eat and love mimicking you and what you’re doing.

Baby led weaning has worked well for my family. I now have a toddler who will try, and most of the time eat, whatever I put in front of her. At almost 2 she feeds herself confidently and with little mess. Mealtimes are stress free and we love trying new foods together. Now as the baby starts stealing food from our plates, we are confident that this is the best approach to starting solids once again as the benefits are just so clear to us.

I highly recommend the book Baby Led Weaning by Gill Rapley.

First foods

Starting baby on real food can be both daunting and confusing, but it really doesn’t have to be as complicated as it’s made to seem. Baby led weaning is a way to introduce foods in a way that’s stress free for both mother and baby.

What is it? Baby led weaning or BLW means introducing foods in their true forms and allowing baby to pick how much or how little she wants to eat. It means no rice cereal or puree. It means waiting until your baby is ready and not x months old. And it means viewing meals in a relaxed manner rather then a chore.

At first baby may only lick or gum at the foods, and that is fine, milk is their primary nutrition until at least 12 months. Always offer milk before a solid meal.

What to eat? My daughters first food was roast pumpkin on Christmas day. She was sitting in the high chair watching the meal, I put a piece off my plate on the tray and she went for it. She smoothed it in her hand and licked a bit off her fingers, it was more for fun then for food. Shortly after she had broccoli stalks and peeled apple pieces. Things like the broccoli I lightly steamed but fruit I kept raw. Eventually I offered grilled chicken strips. I user few herbs and no seasonings at first. She ate whatever vegetables we were having. Now at almost 2 she eats completely independently and is in no way fussy.

When to start? Some people say 4 months, some people say 6, but I say when your baby is ready. How do you know when your baby is ready to eat?
- she should be able to sit without help.
- she should be able to grasp objects in her hands and put them to her mouth.
- she should no longer have the tounge thrust reflex.
Increased feeding or night waking could just be a growth spurt and isnt a clear indicator of being ready for food. Neither is crying when you eat, lots of babies want constant contact with their mothers.

What do I need? Isnt there a lot of baby feeding products? All you need is a few bibs. A high chair is nice to have but you can just feed your baby on your lap. You don’t need bowls or spoons. You dont need special cooking equipment either. You don’t need rice cereal or jar food. It’s a marketing gimmick! How do you think babies survived before jar food and rice cereal and fancy baby food making machines? By stealing off their mothers plates no doubt ;)

A step by step guide on how to start can be found at http://www.babyledweaning.com

Little Lite Lies

Good nutrition is one of the cornerstones of good health. Nurturing ourselves and our families with good wholesome foods is an investment in good health both now and in the future. But with no fat, low fat, less fat, organic, all natural, preservative free, and so on, it’s hard to tell what’s healthy and what is not.

Food marketing is big business and keep in mind that they don’t care about your family or your health, they just want their product in your trolley and in your pantry. They don’t even care if you eat it, they just want you to buy it.

So let’s take a look at the realities of some of the claims on packaged food.

No added sugar – sugar has not been added however it may contain any amount of natural sugar.
Reduced fat or salt – has at least 25% fat then the original product.
Low fat – contains less then 3% fat for solid food or 1.5% for liquid food but check the package for sugar content.
Fat free – must contain less then 0.15% fat, again check sugar content, something is making it taste okay.
Lite/Light – may refer to the texture, colour or taste of the product rather then the fat or energy content.
Baked not Fried – still may contain significant amounts of fat.
100% fruit – may have added sugar and the combination of fruit may differ from what is shown on the label, often companies use majority apple juice with other fruit concerntrates as it’s cheaper.

Understanding the nutritional panel is incredibly important. Every product has the following information on it. The number of servings per package and recommended serving size, often to make claims about being in a healthy diet the manufacturer bases their claims on incredibly small portions. The average energy content, expressed in kilojoules. Every kilojoule not used by the body will be stored as fat. Products low in fat may still be high in energy, always check this section of the label.

Protein is an important nutrient for the development and repair of body tissue and some shoal be consumed at each meal. Carbohydrate is broken down glucose and must be balanced with excercise, however it is still important to have some carbohydrate each meal.

Fat – excessive fat can lead to weight gain, too much saturated fat can raise blood cholesterol and increase the risk of heart disease.

Fibre – having fibre in the diet is important for many aspects of good health.

Salt or sodium – choose foods with low salt content, especially if you have high blood pressure or heart health issues.

What about the ingredient list? This is a blog post all of it’s own. Reading the ingredients list is a minefield in itself. I recommend going to http://www.additivealert.com.au for more information about whats really in our food.

What about organic? Unfortunately anyone can label their food organic so be sure it is organic certified.

So what do we do? Check the labels, the first time you shop with this in mind it may take a really long time, but once you get the hang of it you’ll be fine.

Compare the nutritional content of different brands. Avoid products with additives, especially in products you intend to give to children.

Where possible eat organic to reduce your exposure to pesticides and chemicals. Eat whole foods and cook from scratch wherever possible, the more processed your food is the more chemicals and preservatives needed to keep the food in that state. Tins are often coated in BPA to keep the canned good fresh so buy sauces in glass jars if need be, or make your own!

Buy fruit and vege in season, or grow your own. Even if you’re renting you can buy pots, potting mix and seeds from
Big W or Bunnings for relatively cheap and things like tomatoes, strawberries, beans, capsicum, and herbs recquire very little effort after the initial planting.

If organic food is expensive consider buying only for your children as they building their bodies on these foods. And remember that some foods soak up more chemicals and pesticides through their skin then others. Generally those with a thick skin like pumpkin or pineapple should be fine while food with a thin skin like apples and potatoes should be bought organic. The dirty and clean 15 is a list of what is best and worst when it comes to buying non-organic.

And remember that foods don’t always need extra sugar/salt/fat to taste good. Eat food ‘nude’ without dressings or extras, and enjoy the natural tastes and flavors.

How do I know all this? Well in my life before children food was my job and my job while pregnant with my first was planning and constructing menus for hundreds of sailors meeting their nutritional needs based on the rationing standards of the Navy. Part of a cooks job is knowing how foods react with each other, add fatty products to a soup or sauce that will boil for a long time and it will end up with a layer of grease on the top, too much salt and the fkavour will be overpowering etc. And baking is a science, everything that goes into a cake or loaf of bread needs to be accurately measured or it won’t work. Knowing what is in food was my job.

Since having children knowing what the ingredients in food does to our bodies has been something I’ve been researching and it has shocked me! I can’t learn these things about every day foods and not pass the information on. Many of these ingredients have not been tested for their long term health consequences so who knows what a lifetime of eating these foods will do to us and our children.

I highly recommend the book ABC Guide to Fit Kids by Dr Phillip Mason, Katherine Swan and Adrian Stone for all parents wanting to know more about food and I would recommend reading it BEFORE your child starts solids. As well as Baby Led Weaning by Gil Rapley.

Food glorious food

Well it’s bound to happen one day so I better start thinking about it. DS will in about a month and a half be ready for solids. Who said he was allowed to grow up? In the same month DD will turn 2. I’m going to be one sad mumma that month.

So, what will we be feeding him? Well that’s yet to be decided but I know we will be doing blw or baby led weaning. Meaning no purees or baby cereal, he’ll go straight to finger food. I expect at first there will be a lot of licking and gumming and not much actual eating, but that’s okay. I’m okay with that. He will eat in his own time.

As for food for the rest of the family, well I’m taking a list of additives that I don’t want in my pantry and not buying anything with them in it. And it will be difficult to say the least. There will be so many things we can’t buy. For more information on additives see http://www.additivealert.com.au

Masterchef, loving it. Great series this year, I really am enjoying it. I’m loving that they seem to be spending more time in real commercial kitchens and cooking in bulk the way real cooks/chefs do. So many times during the first two seasons did I think “that’s not the way it really is.” However this season and in particular the last challenge in the mining camp, I’ve been really pleased. And they’re still featuring out there ingredients, like the ostrich egg which I love. I’m really liking Rachel, Kumar and Billy.

In the garden and in the kitchen

After a quick flick through Additive Alert, I really need to rethink our diets. I thought they were pretty good but a quick flick through the pantry showed some nasty additives! And in stuff directly marketed to children. It just makes my blood boil!

On a happier note yesterday I bought an eggplant plant and some coriander to add to the front garden. And I also bought a kilo of passionfruit from the organic farmer for $4, a total steal if you ask me. I made passionfruit curd and it’s super yummy!

Recipe
3/4 cup passionfruit pulp
155 grams sugar
125 grams coconut oil
4 egg yolks

Put all ingredients in a saucepan and stir over high heat until sugar dissolves. Continue to cook over medium heat until mixture is thick, takes approximately 10-15 minutes. Put in sterile jar and put in fridge for at least 1 hour before using. Keeps for 10 days.

It’s delicious!

In other news the children are getting so big! DD will be 2 in less then 2 months and when she turns 2, DS will be 6 months old and ready to start baby led solids. Not sure what we’ll feed him first, some vegetable steamed or roasted. Cauliflower or broccoli maybe? DD is talking more and more, new words come almost daily. Gosh this year is going fast!

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